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Why do my male friends keep weirding me out?

I'm very open about being lesbian to like everyone i meet and im currently on call with one of my boy best mates and his mates have chatted in a gc saying I'm lesbian and he keeps saying things like "

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Is it dramatic to defend my ex?

So i have this classmate who is quite literally obsessed with me.. I've made it very obvious that im a lesbian and he still won't stop. Besides the point i was walking to English today preparing to se

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Why can't i move on after my breakup?

i told one of my friends that i was going to show them a screenshot of a text my ex-gf sent me which stated that she was "far from moving on" but then 4 days later she starts talking to someone new i

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Why do i miss her if i'm better off?

I know for a fact I miss her but I feel like it's me missing what I used to have of her I just wish I was nicer to her throughout our relationship and maybe I would've still been with her, i have full

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Why seeing my ex in class is so exhausting

Everytime i walk to my English lesson i just HAVE to see my ex-gf at first i didnt care but this is the 2nd time in a row when walking to English i see her its so exhausting like i don't care tbh but

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Why do i keep running into my ex at college?

I message a few of my online friends just stating "I hope I don't see (ex-gf's online name) at college" then the next day I do see her like for example the day before the 1st day of college (for every

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Why am i missing her again after so long?

I've been happy without her, yes i think about her a lot but it wasnt with sadness for a while until tonight... I dont know what caused it but I miss her so much, I wish i could just have the version

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Why i defend my ex despite what others say

Basically my boy bsf about an hour ago he just sent me a screenshot that he was getting food delivered to his and i noticed he lives in the same neighbourhood as my ex so i just messaged him stating t

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Am i being dramatic for missing my ex?

Yes i still miss my ex-gf a little bit even though I know I shouldn't, but I met this boy at my college who i think i like we got super close within I think the 2nd week of college and we always glanc

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Why can't i stop thinking about her?

I hate it so much because she's off my mind for like the WHOLE DAY and then I just remember how happy we were and i start becoming sad again I always wonder if she ever has moments like that too or im

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Why do i think about her more at night?

I say im over her but why is it so much harder at night.. Specifically 10pm onwards. I dont think about her throughout the day i dont seem bothered but when it gets later I think about her and just st

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Why do i keep attracting the wrong people?

I always fall for avoidants and I swear I hate it. But then when I fall for an anxious attachment I then turn into the avoidant. I feel like im not fit for love because of that 😭 i just want someon

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Am i really over my ex?

I think i like someone else i dont think about my ex anymore too much, really me thinking about her in a way makes me sick and I never thought I'd be like that, part of me wants to move on but part of

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Am i moving on too fast after my breakup?

I was upset when I found out my ex-gf was pan/bi and started dating a boy but purely bc she identified as a lesbian like forever im not as annoyed now I mean as long as shes happy idrc. But the thing

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Why did he apologize after 600 days?

So little backstory I knew this guy most of my life from like when I was a toddler however we didn't get close until we turned 14 and he was very flirty with me i liked him as a friend and only as tha

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Why does my ex keep giving me dirty looks?

i haven't seen my ex-gf in 3 months and I just saw her at lunch like 2 times which i dont have a problem with whatsoever i thought I would be bothered but im not however both times she saw me and then

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Why am i so scared to see my ex at college?

So last week was my first 2 days at my new college (2nd year) and i was already having so much anxiety if i saw my ex but I found out on the 2nd day that it was only induction week so very few student

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Why moving on feels harder this time

So I've been in 1 proper relationship - irl & online - we saw eachother usually once a month sometimes twice (broke up in early June) and I have had other only online relationships but i will only cou

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Is there really someone out there for me?

As a 17 year old lesbian, I sometimes feel like finding a woman who also likes women is so difficult. After my 1st proper relationship ended, it’s made me wonder whether I’ll ever find another gir