Why can't i stop thinking about her?
I hate it so much because she's off my mind for like the WHOLE DAY and then I just remember how happy we were and i start becoming sad again I always wonder if she ever has moments like that too or im
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Why do i think about her more at night?
I say im over her but why is it so much harder at night.. Specifically 10pm onwards. I dont think about her throughout the day i dont seem bothered but when it gets later I think about her and just st
Why am i still worried about my ex after everything?
So I recently talked to this boy again who had assaulted me a few years ago because he wanted to apologise we've been talking back and forth occasionally we were going to meet up at the park last nigh
Why do i keep attracting the wrong people?
I always fall for avoidants and I swear I hate it. But then when I fall for an anxious attachment I then turn into the avoidant. I feel like im not fit for love because of that 😭 i just want someon
Am i really over my ex?
I think i like someone else i dont think about my ex anymore too much, really me thinking about her in a way makes me sick and I never thought I'd be like that, part of me wants to move on but part of
Am i moving on too fast after my breakup?
I was upset when I found out my ex-gf was pan/bi and started dating a boy but purely bc she identified as a lesbian like forever im not as annoyed now I mean as long as shes happy idrc. But the thing
When mom knew before i did: the breakup i didn't see coming
Before me and my ex-gf broke up i would ask my mum if i could go to the college she was at not just because of her bc ofc i wanted to do a course there but also went there so we could have more time t
Why did he apologize after 600 days?
So little backstory I knew this guy most of my life from like when I was a toddler however we didn't get close until we turned 14 and he was very flirty with me i liked him as a friend and only as tha
Why did my ex block me? confused and heartbroken
So i was messaging one of my ex-gf's friends as she's the only one who actually stayed friends with me i mentioned to her that I saw her at college and things etc I then explained that I dont understa
Why does my ex keep giving me dirty looks?
i haven't seen my ex-gf in 3 months and I just saw her at lunch like 2 times which i dont have a problem with whatsoever i thought I would be bothered but im not however both times she saw me and then
Why am i so scared to see my ex at college?
So last week was my first 2 days at my new college (2nd year) and i was already having so much anxiety if i saw my ex but I found out on the 2nd day that it was only induction week so very few student
Why moving on feels harder this time
So I've been in 1 proper relationship - irl & online - we saw eachother usually once a month sometimes twice (broke up in early June) and I have had other only online relationships but i will only cou
Is there really someone out there for me?
As a 17 year old lesbian, I sometimes feel like finding a woman who also likes women is so difficult. After my 1st proper relationship ended, it’s made me wonder whether I’ll ever find another gir
Why do i want my ex's rebound to end?
i know this sounds really horrible but am I valid/is it okay to really hope my ex-gf and her new bf breakup i wouldn't be saying this if it took her 4+ months to date but its the fact she moved on a m
Seeing my ex at college: what should i do?
I joined my ex-gf's college this September, I got a place before we broke up and chose to go for Hospitality & Catering, but I also chose it because I wanted us to have more time together and hopefull
Why can't i stop missing my ex?
I'm tired of feeling sad just because of my ex-girlfriend I hate how much I miss her, I just want to hug her just one more time but she's with a man now (online) I feel like I'm worth absolutely nothi
Why did she move on so fast after our breakup?
So I'm 17 and my ex-gf is 18 we broke up June 8th 2026 we were together for just over 7 months she claimed to be lesbian for about 5 or 6 years and less than 2 months later she moves onto a much older