i told one of my friends that i was going to show them a screenshot of a text my ex-gf sent me which stated that she was "far from moving on" but then 4 days later she starts talking to someone new i was trying to find that and while doing so i just sobbed looking through our old chats i really thought i was over her because when i see in college I'm not too sad anymore but clearly I'm not over her... I just dont get how she moved on less than a month to less than 2 months later with an older guy and im still not over her 4 months later I feel like im failing and will never fall in love again because I still miss what we had i want a girlfriend again but I don't think anyone would love me again...
Last updated on:2026-10-14T20:43:49+05:30
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you see her at college now, do you miss her as a person, or do you miss having someone who made you feel loved and having all those little things you shared together?
i mainly miss having someone who made me feel loved shes a great person but I miss her old self not her new self
i stopped comparing my healing to my ex's because it was making me feel like i was losing some race. she started talking to someone new, and you're still hurting, but that doesn't mean you're failing or that you'll never be loved again
i was over my ex until i opened our old chats and suddenly i was crying over messages i hadn't thought about in weeks. healing really does sneak up on you like that, especially when you still miss what you had.