Basically my boy bsf about an hour ago he just sent me a screenshot that he was getting food delivered to his and i noticed he lives in the same neighbourhood as my ex so i just messaged him stating that he lives near her and he asked what her name was so i said it and he just went "ahh i think I know her" yk he wasnt being mean or anything anyways i have this gc with him and his friend (girl) and i just stated that im still shocked that my ex lives in the same neighbourhood as him and turns out she lives there too so she was wondering who it was so i told her she said she recognised the name but asked for a photo bc she didnt know if it was the one she was thinking of, so i sent the photo of my ex and i will be really honest the girl was quite mean about her... saying "omg no it is her SHE IS A BITCHHHHH" and obviously knowing my ex i was REALLY confused so i was like "huh? But she's really nice wdym?" She then stated her and her sister went to the same primary school as her then said she was gonna die bc she found out she lives near her and then was saying how ugly she was and "why would I date that thing" and obviously knowing my ex she is not a mean person and I know she used to get bullied in school so now im really worried im talking to one of her old bullies but i just cannot picture my ex being "a b*tch" whatsoever yes shes my ex and we've had problems during and after our relationship but never once could i tell anyone that she was horrible, a b*tch or anything like that so im now REALLY self conscious on whos in my circle of friends now... bc she just isnt like that and i know it.
Last updated on:2026-09-25T20:49:12+05:30
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defending her like that even after breaking up shows how big your heart is, honestly. i remember standing up for my ex when people started trash talking him after we split, and it felt so Gross hearing someone spew hate about a person i used to love.
trust your own gut on who she is, because childhood rumor stuff from primary school is usually total nonsense anyway. if this new girl is dropping words like "thing" to talk about a human being, that tells you EVERYTHING you need to know about her character, not your ex's.
do you think you're going to call that girl out directly, or are you thinking about just quietly pulling away from that group chat altogether?
quietly pull away from the gc