Why am i so confused about this relationship?

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i been with a man for two years, have never been in love with a man this much in my life. We started as friends but the last month we started a confusing relationship. He always tells me that he only meeting me, but he keeps following new girls and got defensive when i asked to look at his snap. I dont feel safe beeing with him anymore, and sometimes he his loving then other times cold. It is hard bc really think this is the first love i have feelt for someone.

He said that he never ever lies, but his words dont match his actions. Then somethimes i dont know if im being delusional but i see signs

Last updated on:2026-09-17T18:33:11+05:30

Comments (5)

Abikdig
Abikdig 3 days ago

i’d trust the feeling that keeps coming back instead of chasing proof.

Situation1
Situation1 3 days ago

do you feel like you’re reacting to actual things he’s doing, or mostly to the fear that he might leave or choose someone else

triphex3
triphex3 4 days ago

i’ve been in that hot-and-cold place, loving someone so much while quietly feeling less and less safe with them.

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 4 days ago

always believe their actions, words are meaningless unless there is proof in their actions

JiveDash856
JiveDash856 4 days ago

If his actions don’t match his words then you got your answer