do i block or unfollow or remove him as my follower? i dont want to hurt him but i feel i need to? but also i dont want to because i want to get used to this?
or do i remove him? and just save myself
Last updated on:2026-10-06T22:49:11+05:30
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when you see his name or his posts, do you actually feel more okay with time, or does it pull you back into checking and thinking about him?
i finally removed him because i needed some peace more than i needed to prove i was okay. i didn’t owe him access to me just so i could get used to seeing him there
i kept someone on my socials because i wanted to prove i could handle seeing him, and every little update still messed with my head.
i think you should remove him & unfollow, if you tend to look at his socials tho , block!
girl block him as long as it’s gonna bring peace to you..remember the main aim is to get peace and it doesn’t matter how he feels thats just part of protecting yourself
As someone who got removed, unfollowed and blocked after my breakup, I can say it really does hurt, especially when you thought you had ended things on okay/his terms. It hurt me to feel like that choice was taken away from me.
If you don’t want to see anything from him, I’d say unfollow or mute him rather than doing something just because you feel like you “should.” Personally, I would’ve preferred having the choice myself whether I wanted to keep following someone or not. If seeing his stuff hurts you though, it’s completely okay to unfollow and stop checking his profile. Do whatever protects your peace. 🫶