Is it too soon to date after my breakup? ?
A few weeks ago, when I was drunk, I downloaded Hinge because I needed to remind myself that there are other people out there. I wasn't really looking for anything or expecting to meet anyone, but the
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Why does healing feel like a rollercoaster?
Man, this shit hurts so fucking bad. This morning I was talking to my friends about everything he did to me, how he treated me towards, how much he hurt me, and how some of his behaviour genuinely tr
Am i really healing or just chasing a high after my breakup?
There's genuinely so much going on in my head right now, and I kinda need some outside perspectives. Since the breakup, some of my friends who used to be friends with my ex too(we all where a friendg
Why did we end up here? a painful goodbye
As i mentioned before I finally exploded and told him exactly what I thought about his behaviour after he pushed me to my limits with his shitty dry behaviour and not respecting my boundaries. Yesterd
Why did he disrespect my boundaries?
Update on the whole situation because honestly, wtf. So today he came to the flat while my das was there so he could get his stuff from there and give me my things back. And somehow, even though I ex
Why does it hurt so much to be blocked after a breakup?
I asked him about the possibility of him blocking me after when he got his stuff back tomorrow, and his answer honestly hurt way more than I expected. He said he wants to completely end contact becaus
Why does he want his gifts back after our breakup?
For context, my ex and I broke up after more than two years, and we're currently sorting out getting our belongings back. He asked if he could have his box of love letters/Open-when-Letters back, and
Why does his apology feel so empty?
Update: He replied to me standing up for myself. He said he thinks there’s no point in discussing everything now that we’ve already broken up, but he "acknowledged his part and apologizes for the
Why standing up for myself feels so scary
After he refused to respect my decision about not letting him into the apartment alone to collect his things, I honestly got so angry. It just feels so unfair how he always seems to get what he wants,
Why does he think he can just take his stuff?
He texted me yesterday to ask when he can pick up his things from the flat that was supposed to be ours (but it's my dad's property). I told him that the apartment code has been changed and that he ca
He broke no contact and now i'm lost
I was at the gym today when I suddenly got a WhatsApp notification from him. He basically just said, “Sorry for texting you like this. I hope you’re doing okay,” and asked when my dad would be b
Why being here hurts more than i thought
I'm in the apartment my ex and I were supposed to move into together, and it hurts so much. We had already started setting things up, and I really thought this was going to be our future. I'm here wi
Should i change the apartment code after my breakup?
I need some advice about an apartment situation because I genuinely don’t know what to do. My ex and I were almost moved in together. The apartment belongs to my dad, and he was supposed to pay ren
How long before you consider dating again after a breakup?
How long did it take you guys to even consider getting with someone else after a breakup? Even if it wasn’t anything serious. I’ve seen so many discussions about this online but never really foun
Why am i changing after my breakup?
Something I’m struggling to understand about myself rn is how much I’ve changed after and before the breakup. He always wanted me to drink and smoke with him, while I was pretty strongly against i
Why going out feels so lonely after a breakup
For anyone who didn’t see yesterday’s post: I have been trying to get myself out there and meet people instead of staying home alone. I had plans to go to an emo/metal event today with someone I w
How i'm rebuilding my social life after breakup
One of the hardest parts of this breakup has been realizing how much my social life changed during the two years we were together. A lot of the people around me where his friends that also became mine