So things have changed in my life since May, I was able to move on and I found a real nice girl that I’m currently with. I’m coming here to ask is it normal to be curious about my ex and her happiness because I found my own and continuing to better my life. I forgive her for giving up up on me and finding another guy. I forgive her for all the horrible things she did to me and I forgive myself for the pain I put her through. I still think about her but not with romantic love but because I miss my best friend. I could talk to her for hours about what has happened in my life and I’m sure she could do the same. Will I be wrong to check her account to see everything that she has accomplished out of curiosity? I know within my heart that what I have for her is over.
Last updated on:2026-10-12T05:58:12+05:30
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i moved on and found someone new, but i still wondered how my ex was doing because she used to be the person i told EVERYTHING to. sometimes i missed the friendship more than the relationship.
i don’t think curiosity makes you wrong, man. i just learned to ask myself what i’d do with whatever i found before checking, because even when the romantic feelings are gone, some things can still hit a little harder than expected.
i think it’s beautiful that you’ve reached a place where you can forgive her and yourself. do you miss the person she was to you as your best friend, or do you miss having someone who knew your whole story like she did?