(a little intro and update) 2 months post breakup. I still feel deeply and think about him everyday, it makes me sick. I can't concentrate on anything. I've never felt worse. I feel defeated, like I've lost myself.
2 weeks ago I went on a party my uni organised, with some friends. I didn't enjoy a second of it, I was picturing him in his new uni, going out, having fun and flirting with/ kissing other girls. A friend told me that its easy for him to do that and I know maybe its true. I went home and couldn't stop spiraling.
I don't and shouldn't know about his life, (Ive also muted him) but if he's talking to/ likes another girl, I feel dumb for keeping him. I sometimes say "let him watch my stories, see what im doing, what he lost, ll do it later", but he wanted to loose me. It doesn't even matter. I just cant press the unfollow button... because that means I have to accept that its over and i cant.
Last updated on:2026-10-18T21:02:41+05:30
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i feel for you because i know how hard that final click can be, do you think a part of you is still hoping he'll see your stories and come back?
he actually watches my stories. I don't know, maybe im stuck between accepting thatits over for him and feeling nostalgic
in the exact same boat your not alone :) it is so hard
take care!
i had this problem too we had broken up a few times before but i kept him in my socials and he was always in my mind everytime i put any story or post...
or even when i was angry and blocked him i kept unblocking him after a few days....
but this time i asked him to block me everywhere so i can't unblock him..... it's so much better for me...i think you can have a last rime chat with him and if it's really over unfollow him everywhere and try to move on
i can't talk to him. He made it clear back then that he doesn't want anything from me anymore. Thats why its hard, I have to so this alone, while I'm still attached and he showed that he didn't care. Its over for him
I’m so sorry, it’s really hard. when your mind is stuck in a loop overthinking you could try the ice cube trick. Try grabbing an ice cube from the freezer and holding it for a minute. The intense cold acts like a circuit breaker for your brain it forces your mind to drop the thought loop and focus on your hands instead.Not so easy at a party but can be helpful to give your mind a rest from over thinking
you’ve got this
I think I've heard about that before but I've never really tried it. Thank you though, I appreciate your advice
Dar ese paso de eliminar o dejar de seguir puede traer mucha paz. Duele en este momento, pero proteger tu espacio te ayudará a dejar de sentirte derrotada. Mantente fuerte, un día a la vez