OK, this is pretty long but things with my ex are extremely weird right now so what’s been happening is we broke up about two months ago and a little after the breakup we kept in touch he talked about wanting to get back together and that he just needed time or whatever I thought was like low-key bullshit but he would like bring it up here to get mad at me for like being out late like he would show that he still cares about me and like has that protectiveness over me but one day he calls me and he’s like I’m talking to someone else and I’m just like wow OK this is just like a month after so I start talking to someone else and then we go no contact for about three weeks and then he text me the blue one day and he’s just like hey and I’m like hey and he tells me that him and this girl are having issues and he asked how me and my guy are and where I’m like we’re fine. You know just some ups and downs, but we’re good and both of us we’re not dating these people talking just talking and then after that he asked me on snap and we start snapping a little bit and then the next day he doesn’t talk to me so I reach out and I’m like hey I’m concerned about some. I need to tell you something I’m not gonna get into that but yeah and then I asked how him and her are. He says that they’re all right actually and so I’m like damn OK and then the next day I go to the fair and he text me that night which I was not expecting him to text me. he just says hey I’m OK and we’re just he just says he’s sorry and I’m like what for and he says I don’t know and then I just say what do you mean and then he calls me but at the time I was in the hospital because I had fainted at affair and they were just checking me out and so I told him I can’t call. Yes why I said I’m in the hospital. He got upset because I didn’t tell him but he’s still at cares and stuff and he just seemed very concerned and then I’m like I’ll just call you when I’m home and when I call him when I’m home he immediately asked if I’m OK and I’m like I’m fine and I say why did you apologize? He said he was sorry for not reaching out to me and talking to me more that he wanted to talk to me and then he said that him and the girl are over and I mean I felt a little excitement not gonna lie, but I just feel like something is just off oh and to add, he also still has me blocked on all socials just not iMessages so I am extremely confused. I know this is long if you read all this thank you and this was that was sent with mic so if there’s some typos then sorry.
Last updated on:2026-10-18T20:06:34+05:30
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my ex played those exact same push-and-pull mind games for four months, keeping me blocked on instagram while blowing up my texts whenever he felt lonely or insecure about the new girl.
I want you to know you aren't alone. sometimes it can be difficult to figure out how someone feels because they aren't sure how they feel themselves. I have reading the book. it's called a breakup because it's broken or he's just not that into you is really helpful with figuring out if somebody is into you or not. I had a really difficult time when I first dating figuring out if somebody really wanted to be with me or just enjoyed my attention to make them feel good. in the beginning people can show a lot of interest and love bomb you and then kind of go cold or show hot and cold behavior. I want you to know that you weren't doing anything wrong. you deserve someone with a secure attachment style who is into you that won't make you so I can guess if they are into you or not. whoever they love, just as you are.
wow thank you I really needed to hear this
I want to be honest pretty girl if be wanted u he would chose someone can love u and still chose to not be with u I think u guys are attached to the idea of being In love because anyone who loves you would show u not give you pieces of it