I am so tired 😭. How to unlove someone?

same

have you tried giving yourself space from them completely? even small distance can make a surprising difference ❤️

it's been 7 months and I still miss him every day

Nightmare 10 mths ago

Same, but, I promised this will be my last text to her.

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for me, keeping no contact and journaling every tiny thought helped a bit. it doesn’t erase feelings but it eases the weight slowly.

Nightmare 10 mths ago

How long since you've started the no contact? 😞

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i spent months stuck on someone and it felt impossible to let go at first. it’s so exhausting.

You are missing the habit. Not the person. The connection, the comfort and the arm at night. You can have that again without the drama. That's what I'm trying to tell myself at least

Nightmare 10 mths ago

Thank you for your kind words. I hope I will be able to make it one day.

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you can’t unlove someone if they were your first in everything. at least that’s how it is for me but i wish i could get rid of the love i still have for him because he doesn’t love me anymore lol

Nightmare 10 mths ago

I hope we all heal.

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sometimes we confuse love with attachment. it’s good to reflect on what is happening inside. is it really love or am I just missing the connection?

I just want to forget everything about him. but it’s not possible :(

Nightmare 10 mths ago

i don't know 😭. Maybe I only missing th connection and the routine.

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