What to do When u feel alike she is talking with that 3rd person?

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Especially when u find them online but not talking with u.... that hurts feels like You've been replaced.... you're no more wanted

Last updated on:2025-10-27T10:13:24+05:30

Comments (10)

poetrygirl
poetrygirl 11 mths ago

i started muting them for a while. not out of anger, just to breathe. seeing them online but silent toward me kept reopening the wound. distance really does help, even when it feels unfair.

huhh
huhh 11 mths ago

what if they're still reaching u back ?.... like I'm not sure abt that third person... but yeah he did came in between us for a instance where I needed to be defended but she defended him... & after few days she reached back to me & we started talking like ntgh happened (she is still my ex)

Scarsfads
Scarsfads 11 mths ago

when my ex stopped replying but kept posting like nothing happened… it was like watching someone live in a world i didn’t belong to anymore. it’s such a specific kind of pain

huhh
huhh 11 mths ago

simple way to is muting them all over.... you feel this coz you imagined a whole future with them ... you're holding on to their potential more than who they actually are...... they post themselves to feel secured & validated...it's like their dopamine & our dopamine was them..... just fine New Dopamine for yourself.... you'll move on

Lois
Lois 11 mths ago

have your activity status off so that you can’t see them online. if you find yourself turning it back on to check restrict, mute or block them. it’s better for your peace of mind. don’t worry, you can get through this eventually🍀

huhh
huhh 11 mths ago

nice one, was looking for this type of practical ways only

Mumohhh
Mumohhh 11 mths ago

oh honey....sending hugs❤️🤍

Lilith
Lilith 11 mths ago

blocking helps

huhh
huhh 11 mths ago

feels like a closure we gave, but I'm a person... who can go miles even with 0.01%

WildSun457
WildSun457 11 mths ago

I don’t want to think about him talking to other women. for my peace and mental health. I already feel rejected I don’t want to add more pain :(