This isn't about him eventhough we still follow eachother on tiktok and insta. I really don't understand why multiple friends of his are stalking my account on tiktok and viewing my profile and posts regularly. All of them still follow me even after cutting direct contact with me on snap. One of them reached out to me after everything happened, seeming like they were being nice and supportive onky to then block me on instagram aswell but that was just one person. I just don't get why they think this is an okay thing to do and why he or they haven't blocked me on everything. I blocked him on WhatsApp which he hasn't done, deleted his contact and blocked his number despite it being really difficult. Is this really okay for them to be doing? I know they don't control me and i don't control them but why act like you don't care and then do this?
Last updated on:2026-04-10T02:00:34+05:30
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do you feel like they’re watching out of curiosity or does it feel more like he’s keeping tabs through them?
keeping tabs through them eventhough he still follows me and also because they want something to talk about
honestly i started acting like she didn’t exist and eventually locked my account for a bit, it gave me some peace. you don’t owe him access to you, even if he act like it’s normal
my ex’s friends used to lurk on my stories after we ended, like they wanted updates without actually being in my life, it felt so invasive and confusing at the same time.
They're still watching you.
yeah, I just feel that it's not right
and by the way I don't follow any of them on tiktok. just him.