Honestly i'm doing fine, during this whole time i didnt have to shed a single tear. Which is weird to me because it used to be very different. She broke up a couple times before and we went no contact each time. I used to breakdown in tears multiple times a day and couldnt resist the urge to reach out. however because of the last no contact lasting a lot longer than usual i started to reflect. and finally understood that i shouldnt ignore my needs. she couldnt give me what i needed and she hurt me a lot. i do still miss her in some form, but i also know that it should be in my best interest to fully move on from her. i deleted everything that could remind me of her and stopped checking her socials. just hoping it gets easier from here
Last updated on:2026-04-11T07:58:02+05:30
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do you feel at peace right now or does it feel more like you’ve shut something off to protect yourself?
i'd say a mix of both. But i'm doing fine overall
i’ve been there, that shift from crying every day to suddenly feeling… okay, almost numb. after my last breakup i thought something was wrong with me because i wasn’t falling apart anymore, but really i was just DONE being hurt. it sounds like you finally chose yourself and that hits different.