so he came back like 3 weeks ago, after not even 2 days he said he likes being alone and that he likes spending time with his friends more. then after 2 days of no contact he came back saying he will change and it went on for like 3-4 days but i kept overthinking so i told him that i cant do that and i need time and we should talk when we see each other again in 2 months etc and after he saw that paragraph, he didnt even reply. i texted him again after 3 days asking why and he said he thought i just needed time. we started dating again cuz he texted me that he wants me and he’s sorry and he will be better and be the person i fell in love with and he promised me he will never leave again. 3 days ago, we had an argument. i thought he was ignoring me because it happened in the past that he ignored me for 2 months and blocked me but i also am the one that left him first, for 8 months, because i wanted to work on myself. so in this argument i was asking him to talk and communicate but he said that im acting like i didnt do anything and he didnt want to talk and when I asked him to talk or say i love you at least, he said “I said I dont want to talk” and after that i just removed him because I dont know what’s happening to him, one week he s nice then he s cold. i dont think its hard to communicate when you really want someone, I wouldve never removed him but i really dont get him anymore.
what do you guys think about all this? why do you think he s like this?
Last updated on:2026-05-11T13:30:33+05:30
Comments (3)
You need to move on and let him go. You're in a very toxic relationship. You must move on. I promise he'll come back, but he'll still be just as bad. He won't change. You must take the step of ending the relationship.
You're draining yourself emotionally doing this back and forth,you cant force soemone to grow into something they aren't ready for.He can't give you stability like his actions are not of a man who wants to keep you and grow with you.
just from reading this i’d say your both the reason you guys arnt working, he seems to distance himself and you seem to push him away. and i know you might still like him but i think it’s time to move on and find your worth. hope all goes well gorgeous xx ❤️