Why does it hurt so much after our breakup?

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you seem so happy. all your reposts are about yearning for someone already. all your chats in our gc with our common friends seem like you don’t even care. am i really nothing to you now? why am i the only one who seems heartbroken about our breakup? am i really that easy to replace? did you even really love me? it’s only been 5 days of our no contact.

Last updated on:2026-05-11T00:23:11+05:30

Comments (8)

VoMUA
VoMUA 2 days ago

5 days is still SO fresh. i remember staring at my ex acting normal online while i was crying every night wondering how someone could switch up that fast.

rabitcat
rabitcat 2 days ago

were they always someone who hid their feelings around other people? or does this coldness feel completely different from who they were with you?

CoolBeans578
CoolBeans578 2 days ago

he never hides his feelings. he always shares them on social media and with other people. even our smallest fights end up as notes on instagram and on messenger. he's always open with other people.

CozyAndVibe855
CozyAndVibe855 3 days ago

I know exactly what you mean. He confessed to another girl within a few days after the breakup and we had been in a relationship for 2 years. Let me just tell you this, whilst you are learning to move on and heal he is not grieving properly and in a month or so it will hit him whilst you're either healed or in that process. You deserve ao much better

SparkFlick550
SparkFlick550 4 days ago

leave the chats! it’s for the sake of your mental health

SweetNinja924
SweetNinja924 4 days ago

he sounds like a real user. you're better off without him. your headache will pass believe me and when it does you will see just what kind of person he is and you'll be so happy you found out sooner than later. hang on. we're here for you. stay in touch.

FrostFlick137
FrostFlick137 4 days ago

your not alone its been hard on me too

BondRise991
BondRise991 4 days ago

I am going through the exact same thing, at some point I realized that I didn’t know what was going on in their head so I couldn’t judge whether or not they cared. But I understood that I wasn’t going to beat myself up over still caring about them and their actions brought me the clarity that I was never able to get.