Thank you I needed to hear this. We got into a huge argument and he said he was going to leave the relationship. He went on to block me everywhere. I the first three or four days I called him continuously pleading with him for us to work things out but he just wouldn't listen. He said he was 50/50 when I asked him again over a phone call. I then gave him all the space he wanted. It's been almost a week, he hasn't talked to me. Then we showed up at my office last night to pick me without prior notice. I was shocked because after trying to work things I gave up and am at the verge of leaving.
He said we will talk things through and I do not know what to feel. Was he just being avoidant? Should I let him talk about our arguments and listen to what he has to say?
In some cases they might completely leave, but sometimes they come back. with the small lightening or spark as they come back we will boom and become close again that's a biggest mistake. even though if they come back be normal yourself be in your limits observe few days and get to know the reason why they came back it's just because of nit forgetting you or any other reasons. if you feel like they really missed you so that's the reason they came back then it's okay you can offer a chance and move. But always be careful before you getting into it once again. (If a snake bites we should go for treatment not behind the snake and asking why did you bite me)
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dont know why they want to mess around after hurt us so much.😢
It hurts so bad and it's confusing
Thank you I needed to hear this. We got into a huge argument and he said he was going to leave the relationship. He went on to block me everywhere. I the first three or four days I called him continuously pleading with him for us to work things out but he just wouldn't listen. He said he was 50/50 when I asked him again over a phone call. I then gave him all the space he wanted. It's been almost a week, he hasn't talked to me. Then we showed up at my office last night to pick me without prior notice. I was shocked because after trying to work things I gave up and am at the verge of leaving.
He said we will talk things through and I do not know what to feel. Was he just being avoidant? Should I let him talk about our arguments and listen to what he has to say?
In some cases they might completely leave, but sometimes they come back. with the small lightening or spark as they come back we will boom and become close again that's a biggest mistake. even though if they come back be normal yourself be in your limits observe few days and get to know the reason why they came back it's just because of nit forgetting you or any other reasons. if you feel like they really missed you so that's the reason they came back then it's okay you can offer a chance and move. But always be careful before you getting into it once again. (If a snake bites we should go for treatment not behind the snake and asking why did you bite me)
they are stupid