Why do they always come back when i'm finally moving on?

Why do they come back when you've finally found peace to leave?

Last updated on:2026-06-25T08:34:45+05:30

Comments (12)

imemonow
imemonow 2 mths ago

they dont want to loose you but they arent choosing you either

SockPunch
SockPunch 2 mths ago

i don't know why they come back, but i stopped looking for a reason.

tornheart1
tornheart1 2 mths ago

my ex came back right when i had stopped checking my phone every five minutes and started feeling like myself again. it almost felt unfair, like they sensed i was finally letting go.

ChillSpark254
ChillSpark254 2 mths ago

It's so unfair and draining

jessowns
jessowns 2 mths ago

when they came back, did they actually offer anything new, or did they just reopen a door you'd worked hard to close?

ChillSpark254
ChillSpark254 2 mths ago

He just said to talk things through. I am yet to know what we are going to fix

nike
nike 2 mths ago

cuz them bored curious lonely

OneCat98
OneCat98 2 mths ago

dont know why they want to mess around after hurt us so much.😢

ChillSpark254
ChillSpark254 2 mths ago

It hurts so bad and it's confusing

ChillSpark254
ChillSpark254 2 mths ago

Thank you I needed to hear this. We got into a huge argument and he said he was going to leave the relationship. He went on to block me everywhere. I the first three or four days I called him continuously pleading with him for us to work things out but he just wouldn't listen. He said he was 50/50 when I asked him again over a phone call. I then gave him all the space he wanted. It's been almost a week, he hasn't talked to me. Then we showed up at my office last night to pick me without prior notice. I was shocked because after trying to work things I gave up and am at the verge of leaving.

He said we will talk things through and I do not know what to feel. Was he just being avoidant? Should I let him talk about our arguments and listen to what he has to say?

FluffJo397
FluffJo397 2 mths ago

In some cases they might completely leave, but sometimes they come back. with the small lightening or spark as they come back we will boom and become close again that's a biggest mistake. even though if they come back be normal yourself be in your limits observe few days and get to know the reason why they came back it's just because of nit forgetting you or any other reasons. if you feel like they really missed you so that's the reason they came back then it's okay you can offer a chance and move. But always be careful before you getting into it once again. (If a snake bites we should go for treatment not behind the snake and asking why did you bite me)

QuickFlex928
QuickFlex928 2 mths ago

they are stupid