I keep trying, but it is so difficult. I keep breaking no contact every couple of days.
The problem is, he answers and still says nice things. so whenever I feel bad, it's like a drug. He is an avoidant and makes it seem that I am the one in control. he says things like, 'you know I'm going to keep hurting you if we do this again' and he is right, but I would rather his love and be hurt every now and again than not have it at all. just writing it out I know it looks and sounds pathetic. The issue isn't that he doesn't love me. it's that when he gets overwhelmed he pushes people away.
I need to do 30 days, but I just don't know how.
Last updated on:2026-06-24T14:29:11+05:30
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if he called you tonight and said the exact same things he's been saying for weeks, would anything actually change between you two, or would you still be having this same conversation with yourself a month from now?