100 days later: how i survived without him
i once thought never talking to him again would kill me. it still hurts to really sit down and accept that we will never speak again, but i’ve made it this far. this is your sign to trust that wha
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Why am i suddenly grieving my breakup again?
i need advice. i’ve been doing pretty solid, some days i miss him more than others but i felt really good for the past 30ish days. but all of a sudden yesterday and today i just yearn for him. i thi
Why i stopped checking my ex's socials
i know that for a lot of people part of strict “no contact” is not checking socials. that was incredibly hard for me at the start of our no contact. i was checking instagram and snap score probabl
Why i struggle to move on after my breakup
but does letting go completely and moving on with my life ruin the chances of him ever reaching our or wanting to try again when we’ve both grown up, matured, and are out of college where we are lon
Am i the only one who feels this way after a breakup?
i hear all the time the post breakup fear of “what if no one loves me again?” or “what if i never find anyone who wants me the way he did” etc. and i actually don’t have that at all. mine i
Why did he unsaved my photos?
i don’t check his socials much at all anymore but sometime between 8-9 weeks of no contact he went into our saved in chats on snapchat and unsaved the photos he had saved of me in chat from april an
Why did he unfollow my spam account? confused and hurt
it’s been 8 weeks of no contact. last night i noticed he unfollowed my “spam” instagram account. it definitely hurt for a few minutes. i’m mostly just confused why he unfollowed that account b
Why 53 days of no contact isn't the end of my heartache
i’ve been doing good. like really good. i wouldn’t say “moved on” or “over it” but i’ve been at peace. then for some reason today i woke up with the HORRIBLE pit in my stomach that follo
Why can't i stop thinking about him after the breakup?
i want to break no contact so badly but i know it won’t change anything and will probably just make him resent me. his last text to me was “i get missing what we had and i care about you sm, i rea
Why am i breaking down after 35 days of no contact?
i know this is so weird bc it’s already been 35 days of NC. but i’m laying in bed rn just in absolutely shambles, i haven’t sobbed like this at all the whole breakup, and it’s been almost 2 mo
How i survived 30 days without him
i was a firm “this will never get easier” person. and part of me still is… bear with me. i never thought id make it to 30 days of no contact, but before i knew it, that’s tomorrow. i broke no
Why is he sending mixed signals after our breakup?
avoidant discard (i think). i know i should stop noticing but of course i always notice the reels he likes since we are still friends on instagram. today he liked one that said “when it’s a health
Why did he break up with me so suddenly?
We are both 19. very young. i was his first girlfriend. i didn’t get much closure from the breakup but he said “i care about you i just don’t feel like i can be with you at this point in my life
Why does letting go feel so unexpected?
this might be an original experience… but last night i had probably about 5 hours where i really didn’t think of him much, i really didn’t care, and i didn’t have the heavy chest feeling that
Why can't i move on from him?
i can’t move on bc i don’t know for a fact he’s moving on. he left bc he didn’t feel like he could sustain the effort for a relationship but i know it’s prob bs. i keep scouring social media
Does time and distance really heal breakups?
I’m still very hopeful for reconnecting in the future. There is no bad blood, he pulled away because of long distance for college and I think a fear of emotional vulnerability (his first relationshi
Why i turned to a psychic after my heartbreak
She said it seems like he does still think of me, and that there are unresolved feelings from both parties. Sort of that he’s experiencing some sort of intimidation and fear of commitment. But she
Should i reach out for closure after a sudden breakup?
He left very out of the blue, one day he was all in, the next he was leaving but couldn’t really give me a reason other than “I just feel like I can’t be with you at this point in my life”. We
Why do i keep replaying his last text?
8 Days ago I told him I missed chatting and just had been thinking about him a lot, it was the only time I had “chased” since our breakup. He left out of the blue long distance just before we were
Why can't i let go of the hope he'll come back?
we only dated for 3 months. we go to separate universities. we were about to have summer together buthe just said he couldn’t keep doing distance and sometimes we fought too much over text. i was hi