6 months ago, I finally got the courage to remove him from social media. Seeing this guy online was preventing me from moving on because our thing was always unresolved (he doesn't respond when I ask for clarity).
Now he adds me back on social media and I accepted, but he did not reached out. What does he want??
If the goal was placing him back on my mind, I guess he made it
Last updated on:2026-08-05T03:13:28+05:30
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my ex popped back into my life after months of silence, and it reopened wounds i had worked so hard to close. sometimes they come back without bringing the answers we hoped for.
that's what's happening here too
i had more peace when i stopped trying to figure out what their actions meant and paid attention to how those actions made me feel. that saved me a lot of sleepless nights.
when you asked for clarity before, did he ever answer at all, or did he always leave you hanging?
he answered generic things
mine removed me during our first rupture. he came back. I asked him in a cute way okay why haven’t you added me back. then I told him when I get requests I wish it was him. still didn’t. it broke a part of me. that’s why even if he came back I’ll never see him as safe again. who cares why. games belong nowhere in love.
i think you were testing his commitment. i also had hopes mine would still fight for things when I removed him
but of course, seeing someone as safe takes consistency, time, trust. it's legitimate you don't see him the same way anymore
@JunoNote3 I wasn’t testing commitment. I was asking to be a part of his life. we were so super close. and then he self sabotaged like a fearful avoidant does. and it’s fair to ask to be a part of something. I mean you want access to my body but don’t want me as a friend on the socials. there was nothing toxic there before. so. idk. either way. it showed me that he had no intention of repair
@H4rdK0RK1tn It is indeed fair to ask to be a part of his life. <3
ps - I already gave him a second chance back in the day and ended up hurt again