i can’t move on bc i don’t know for a fact he’s moving on. he left bc he didn’t feel like he could sustain the effort for a relationship but i know it’s prob bs. i keep scouring social media looking for signs he’s moving on but can’t find anything. no new follows, there’s one family friend that he started liking her posts but idk, snap score only going up like 5-10 per day. i’m going crazy!!! i can’t be angry at him but i am praying just as much for him to come back as i am to find out or hear about something that will make me not want him back!! is this normal?
Last updated on:2026-05-18T08:53:27+05:30
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i think wanting proof they moved on is sometimes our brain trying to force closure on itself.
omg! I’m so glad I found this!! I have been searching for a new girl as well and did notice a new follower..
I just noticed that on Facebook he put me as a restricted friend so now I can literally only see his like public post which means that he probably did that so that I can’t see who’s commenting on his posts. He’s so sneaky like why doesn’t he just delete me from Facebook instead? I can’t see any of his new posts and I’m going crazy too.
i know that this probably sucks so bad but i’m honestly hoping for something like this just so i can be like okay he’s moving on and ive yet to find anythingggg
@ChillSpirit391 😞
He probably can’t sustain a relationship which is why he’s got to find a new person to carry the load. Mine cheated. I sent him to live with her two days ago after 16 months of trying to work it out after I discovered the affair. he never stopped. I take great comfort and joy in knowing that she will get the full experience of him—not just fun dates and meetups, but him and all of his unsustainable bullshit. He comes with a lot of it
i did this after my breakup too, checking follows, likes, spotify, even stupid little things like snap scores 😭 i kept thinking if i could just FIND something maybe my brain could finally settle on whether to hate him or hope for him. the uncertainty is torture.
he actually give you any mixed signals after the breakup, or is your mind filling in the blanks because the ending felt so unclear?
the only thing that’s weird to me is he always views my stories in like the first 30 minutes no matter the platform. but he asked for space? it sort of makes no sense tbh
i believe in "whats urs will always come back to you". if he want to cone back he will come back.and other than relationships, love , the guy may be involved in his career , family and other significant part of life. not wanting u in his lifeand leaving u at ur lows is something that u should move on