Why 53 days of no contact isn't the end of my heartache

i’ve been doing good. like really good. i wouldn’t say “moved on” or “over it” but i’ve been at peace. then for some reason today i woke up with the HORRIBLE pit in my stomach that followed me up until around day 30. when will it go away and stay away for GOOD? because this feels like a mean prank

Last updated on:2026-06-29T20:47:12+05:30

Comments (7)

buttery1
buttery1 2 mths ago

53 days is still REAL progress.

NeonFlex785
NeonFlex785 2 mths ago

if it came out of nowhere, do y'all have a soultie? cause ts happen to me too & all i did ab it was js try to find a guy i can talk to (im a woman) & id start to get drunk more often, yeah this isnt the best thing to say, but thats how i got rid of these feelings completely & fast. but its also okay if you don't start doing those things, but for it to stop from itself, its gonna take a longer time than you may think, just look at more positive things around life, like, you only live once, he got taken out of your life for a reason, u cant be stuck up on someone that just doesnt feel the same way.. theres so much to live for, positive things, mind you, you're still young & you have so many years yet to live, people will come & go

kk066251
kk066251 2 mths ago

did anything happen yesterday that might've stirred it up, or did it really come out of nowhere?

flashy001
flashy001 2 mths ago

i was doing okay for weeks, then one random morning it all came crashing back like i'd made zero progress. those days got farther apart for me, even when it didn't feel like it.

letitgo_user
letitgo_user 2 mths ago

I hope that you wake up tomorrow feeling a little less of the pain you are feeling today. it really does ebb and flood sometimes

PetroPPDX
PetroPPDX 2 mths ago

it comes and goes in waves.

FrostJet725
FrostJet725 2 mths ago

I hate this feeling. I wish it would just go away.