Why we underestimate our strength after a breakup

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If I was half as strong as people here on the app, things would look very different for me and I would heal faster!

Last updated on:2026-06-26T10:08:03+05:30

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ItsNotEasy
ItsNotEasy 2 mths ago

keep your head high, you can be as strong as you think we are. you just need to focus and give the healing process time. but we are all here to help. :)

xoxoboi
xoxoboi 2 mths ago

But you are strong! We've all been through the beginning process of a breakup. None of it is easy for any of us, but take it day by day. Let yourself feel what you need to, let yourself cry, let yourself just grieve. Remember that you are the only person you are waiting for in all of your abundance.

CozyKind972
CozyKind972 2 mths ago

That is really sweet of you. Thanks!

dutter00
dutter00 2 mths ago

i kept looking at other people's progress and thinking everyone was stronger than me. then i realized i was surviving days i never thought i'd make it through too.

Mellow
Mellow 2 mths ago

Healing is a process and should happen " fatser" , take your time

WildJourney344
WildJourney344 2 mths ago

you are stronger than you think,take a long look in the mirror and remind yourself of how special you really are

CozyKind972
CozyKind972 2 mths ago

This helped a lot thank you❤️

lovedosh
lovedosh 2 mths ago

i stopped measuring my healing against other people's.

Chubunny
Chubunny 2 mths ago

what makes you feel everyone else is healing faster? are you seeing something in them that you might be overlooking in yourself?

CozyKind972
CozyKind972 2 mths ago

possibly? I am not sure but yes. Everyone is really very expressive here and I am too. But since the breakup is fresh I feel numb most of the times maybe thats why i feel everyone else is healing faster