We are both 19. very young. i was his first girlfriend. i didn’t get much closure from the breakup but he said “i care about you i just don’t feel like i can be with you at this point in my life”. so im thinking its a lack of emotional readiness. but i genuinely dont understand that. you WERE in a relationship for 3 months, things were going well; and then one day you suddenly cant be in one???? i dont get it.
Last updated on:2026-05-22T14:59:12+05:30
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my ex cared about me too, he just realized once things got real that he wasn’t emotionally ready for the responsibility of a relationship the way he thought he was.
i get why you’re confused. honestly sometimes people love the idea of a relationship until they’re actually IN one and then the pressure, vulnerability and commitment start freaking them out.
he slowly pulled away before the breakup happened, or did this genuinely come out of nowhere for you too?
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So young. You have time to exercise your operations. Don't be in a hurry to get tied down. Let him go he doesn't know what he wants yet. no contact, don't chase, keep yourself respect. Work on knowing yourself better. You wants and need should come first at this point. Don't drive yourself crazy trying to figure out what you did, you did nothing wrong.
it takes time for someone to gather those emotions, I did this once and it's because I was struggling mentally and was scared to drag the other person down with me. it will be ok girl. u got this🖤🩷