I’m struggling to understand if my wife ever truly loved me. She betrayed me, lied about where she was going, and eventually things escalated to the point where the cops were called and I ended up in jail. Now I’m facing a lot of legal trouble and we have no contact. Can someone actually love you and still do all of that, or was it all a lie? I just need some outside perspective because my head is spinning.
Last updated on:2026-06-29T11:28:03+05:30
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i asked myself that same question after my relationship ended, and i never found one clean answer. someone can have real feelings and still make choices that leave you shattered.
that's so much to deal with. before everything escalated, had the lying and betrayal been going on for a while or did it all happen really fast?
Honestly, it was just happen all in one night.
When things like that happened we questioned the love they have for us....at the end of the day it's they're choice and we have no control over it. What I do instead is focus on my healing and finding ways to move on...it not going to be easy but that's what I did cause chasing closer from my ex is roller-coaster.
I still love her a lot, even though she do me dirty like that we have been with each other for 10 years and she is the only girl I have ever been with we even have 3 kids together and now I'm not allowed to see my kids cause she had restricted order on me 😭😭😭