It's been 26 days since we broke up, and I've met someone new who wants to get to know me better. Honestly, I'm scared and hesitant to break down the barrier between us. I feel like I'm losing control and can't let go of this attachment. Should I give him a chance, knowing he's interested in getting to know me better? But I always find myself ignoring their calls and messages when I try to get to know them. I haven't found a way to open up, and as I said before, I'm afraid of the consequences of opening up and the intentions I'll have when I decide to give him a chance. What should I do?
Last updated on:2026-08-24T07:16:32+05:30
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Hi
second relationship can't work for now,let go everything and start your new page of life,,,once you have made any step in anything,don't think of coming back to the same step
i'd take the pressure off the word "chance." you can talk to him slowly without promising anything, and if you keep ignoring his calls because every part of you is screaming no, i'd listen to that for now.
i think u should give urself sometime to heal and dont rush any new relationships find yourself first and find uour boundaries to start right this time
are you actually interested in getting to know him and scared of getting hurt, or do you feel like you should give him a chance because you're trying to let go of your ex?
I've always heard to get over someone you have to get under someone.
26 days is still so fresh. i've been there, and i remember feeling guilty for not being ready when someone kind came along, like i owed them a chance just because they liked me. you don't have to force yourself through that door before you're ready.
this break up is still pretty fresh, and honestly i don’t think it would be right to give this person a chance because you’re still healing, and it wouldn’t be fair to the other person if you’re still holding on to what’s already gone. for now, heal. focus on yourself and resist the urge to get into a rebound relationship, those never work. be honest with this person about your feelings, it would be better to be truthful than lead them on. you got this girl, i hope you feel better soon it’s going to be okay 💓
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My advice to you, girl, is don't get into a second relationship until you've recovered from your first one, because you'll see your ex in the second man and you'll hurt yourself, sweetie.🤍