so yesterday I sent him a long message saying the last things I had to say and then i said goodbye. i removed him almost a week ago, because he just didnt want to communicate with me, he was saying I dont wanna talk and didnt even say I love you back or anything, and he also that im acting like i didnt do anything wrong, and he left me there that night with my thoughts instead of communicating with me. (last year i left him and came back to him in January, after 8 months. since January he was on and off with me, blocked me for 2 months and ignored every message and then came back like a month ago, but one week he wanted me then he was cold then he was sweet and so on). After seeing the long paragraph i sent him, he said he loves me and asked if we can talk tomorrow, when he’s back from the trip with his school, he also said he wants to explain something to me and he didnt want to leave me that day but I removed him everywhere.
What do you guys think about all this?
Last updated on:2026-05-13T19:29:12+05:30
Comments (4)
i’d listen to what he wants to say, but i’d pay more attention to the pattern than the words. the blocking, disappearing, coming back warm then cold again, that stuff slowly wrecked my self worth when i went through it.
to be honest I would say hear him out because then if you walk away you won't have any regrets later about your decision. even if it hurts you can walk away knowing you heard him out
i would say give him a chance but use your best judgement here. is this another push/pull tactic?
ugh this sounds exhausting emotionally. i’ve been in that push and pull thing before where someone only seems to fully react once they feel you slipping away