I am going through a breakup and a divorce. The marriage I thought I healed from so I got into a relationship and it ended up being abusive. I learned in therapy today we tend to go from one toxic thing to another when we haven't healed yet I realized I need to focus on myself for awhile so trying to not date for awhile. Still picking up the pieces, it's hard.
Last updated on:2026-05-26T11:44:12+05:30
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i’m really glad you’re seeing the pattern now though.
do you feel more heartbroken over losing the relationship itself or more exhausted from realizing how much pain you’ve been carrying for so long?
We are attracted to what feels familiar, even if its bad for us. This is something I've been trying to work on. But geez sometimes that chemistry is strong