i was not on talking terms with my partner because of what she saw on my gaming account. she thought i was cheating on her because of the message of the person towards me calling me hey bro you're cute. and then she saw that and say we shouldn't talk for 3 months because she's having trust issues with me. to be honest with you i was just relax at that moment not thinking clearly that it wouldnt make a harm in our relationship. i dont even know what to do anymore its like my whole world is falling apart for me it wasn't anything serious because she asked who it was. i didn't think that it would ruin her trust in me i haven't talked to her singe June 1 of this month i need some serious help. because if this goes on i would really hurt myself tbh.
Last updated on:2026-06-02T19:22:42+05:30
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staring at my phone every day after my ex asked for space, convinced that one more message would fix everything. that panic where it feels like your whole world is collapsing is REAL
its like i keep seeing her story about us like she loves me but she's like giving up on us. its like making me think if i go should i talk to her or what its making me anxious. it feels like im losing her everyday when we're not talking its like killing me inside. like im dying not talking to her like im tired in the process. i dont know what to do i have this urges wanting to talk to her make her feel okay while im breaking down myself.
i wouldn't show up at her house. when i was in that headspace, every part of me wanted to do something, anything, but what helped me most was getting through one day at a time without making a decision i'd regret later.
what should i do then brother it feels like im loosing hope at the same time and losing my mind.
You should wait a little bit to regain her trust. Give it some time buddy. Its not worth hurting yourself. Life has its ups and downs but indeed is beautiful place and your body is your temple.
how long do i need to wait to not reach her? because tbh the way that i see in her social media its more of like moving on post that i see
@RazzFlex884 I would wait until I am in the right place to have a conversation. Because every time I was emotional I made myself fool. I saw when I am more confident and stable people are more honest even if it hurts. It will hurt if you loose her but trust me it hurts the most when you loose yourself on the way. Use this time to do something you love and spend time with your friends. Just fill your days one by one.
you said you're struggling, because when i got to the point of thinking about hurting myself, i needed more than friends on the internet. are you talking to anyone you trust right now, and can you reach out to a crisis line or emergency support in your area if those thoughts start getting stronger
I've had that thinking of hurting myself because i keep seeing her story like telling me that she's moving on. i dont know what i should do its breaking me apart im tired its been just 2 days since we're not talking but its hurts like real bad as shit