Why i keep relapsing after my breakup

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it's hard god damn!!!!!!! I relapsed over and over and over again

Why i keep relapsing after my breakup

Last updated on:2026-06-15T17:07:33+05:30

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flyaway1
flyaway1 3 mths ago

was there something specific that pulled you back in this time, or was it just one of those nights where the missing them hit REALLY hard?

Aniesha
Aniesha 3 mths ago

if a day or 2 passes, he messaged me if I don't message him & I can't help but to respond when he message or call me. We spoke the entire time last night.

bluewater
bluewater 3 mths ago

i kept breaking no contact for months after my breakup. every time i swore it was the last time, i'd end up right back there again.

Aniesha
Aniesha 3 mths ago

this is what's reaching me. it's harder than people think it is.

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 3 mths ago

Its ok, be kind to yourself, you are human. Just remember to keep trying after every relapse until it sticks. Your heart is just having a hard time catching up

Aniesha
Aniesha 3 mths ago

it's too hard

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 3 mths ago

@Aniesha you are in control here. Its time to block him and keep him blocked. You are prolonging your healing everytime you reach out or respond

Aniesha
Aniesha 3 mths ago

@DreamyWay697 ok 😢

poundcaker
poundcaker 3 mths ago

I’m exactly the same the keep reaching out with random stuff but nothing real.

Aniesha
Aniesha 3 mths ago

the worse part is he keeps answering me and responding