Why can't i escape my husband after the affair?

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Everything came rushing back all at once today, it was like a slap iin the face, the hardest part of all of this is that when my husband cheated, abandoned us, he couldn't just leave and stay away, start a new chapter of his life with this discusting woman far away from me and my family, no, he goes back to work at my family's business, a business that has been in my life since 6 years old, where my dad was working at on fathers day where he died in 2008 , I can't seem to escape him or her because now she's driving my family's cars, keeping close to my family. So what the F am I supposed to do? all of the old anger has just come rushing back

Last updated on:2026-06-16T01:49:11+05:30

Comments (6)

cutecatty
cutecatty 1 wk ago

my anger wasn't a setback, it was my heart reacting to being forced to see people who hurt me. some wounds flare up when they're constantly being poked.

skeltonBB
skeltonBB 1 wk ago

is the anger hitting harder because you're seeing them again, or because it feels like they've been allowed into spaces that were always part of YOUR life and history?

HugZip248
HugZip248 1 wk ago

Because when he cheated on me he also gave the right to have my family in his life as well, that's just the way that I feel he chose to have that horrible woman in his life, I didn't chose for her to be in mine

stargirl1
stargirl1 1 wk ago

my ex cheated too, but at least i could get some distance. having him and the woman he left you for woven into places that hold memories of your dad and your childhood is a whole different kind of pain

HugZip248
HugZip248 1 wk ago

26 years of my life spent on that Jackass, it's almost like he's has nothing without my family, why doesn't he go and be with her family

HugZip248
HugZip248 1 wk ago

Oh and I can destroy him RN, one phone call and he would have absolutely nothing, sometimes I want to destroy him like he did me