Is 4 days no contact enough?

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Well, 4 days no contact, we're stil doing our tiktok streaks...I mean he forgot today but we don't talk at all. I'm focusing on myself until he comes back.

Last updated on:2026-06-21T21:30:12+05:30

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Cookie8723
Cookie8723 10 hrs ago

if he never came back, would the things you're doing for yourself right now still feel worth it to you?

misstalk
misstalk 14 hrs ago

4 days is still so fresh. i remember counting every single day and reading into every little thing, even stuff like streaks. my brain treated every notification like it meant something.

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 14 hrs ago

I know it's not much but to me it is lol....I'm focusing on myself tho I'm happy and I enjoy my time alone which was not the case before

CozyNest748
CozyNest748 yesterday

Atleast you're even streaking with your's. Mine is blocked everywhere

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 20 hrs ago

well he forgot yesterday and today too prob.

FrostJet725
FrostJet725 2 days ago

Waiting for someone to come back isn't actually focussing on yourself unfortunately.

Prudence
Prudence 2 days ago

true

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 2 days ago

this. After my break up, I filled my life with gym, Hikes, losing weight. I realised I was doing it all to impress him when he came back. Once I fully comprehended he wasn't coming back, thats when the true healing started

ItsNotEasy
ItsNotEasy 2 days ago

@DreamyWay697 im like still stuck in the mindset she may come back..only because she jumped straight into a relationship with someone else right away..and I think it will end poorly.

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 2 days ago

I mean its working for me ig

nomondem
nomondem 2 days ago

True . If they can't talk and know where they both stand then I suggest they do or move on