i miss her so much still. But it’s okay. Everything reminds me of her, but also i’m working, driving, laughing with friends, going to doctor appointments. My life is still going. Two things can exist at the same time. i can miss her & i can continue without her.
Last updated on:2026-06-18T20:53:12+05:30
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this is the shift that helped me most. i stopped treating every thought about my ex like a setback and started seeing it as part of loving someone who mattered. i still missed him, but i wasn't stuck anymore.
do you feel like you're starting to trust yourself again, even if you still miss her every day?
i kept waiting for the missing her part to disappear before i could live again, but it never worked that way. one day i realized i was carrying the sadness and still showing up for my life too
grief and growth can happen simultaneously my friend. I’m trying to tell myself that going through a very tough time missing him, glad to hear your perspective!
that is a wonderful perspective
I think that's amazing. being able to keep doing what you need to do and what makes you happy is hard when you're going through a breakup, but it gets better. whether you get back with her or not... It gets better
it’s true. doesn’t make it not hard. you got this! keep doing what’s best for you and be proud of how far you’ve come
thank you so much!