Is it okay to miss her?

i miss her so much still. But it’s okay. Everything reminds me of her, but also i’m working, driving, laughing with friends, going to doctor appointments. My life is still going. Two things can exist at the same time. i can miss her & i can continue without her.

Last updated on:2026-06-18T10:26:11+05:30

Comments (6)

staryeye
staryeye 1 hr ago

i kept waiting for the missing her part to disappear before i could live again, but it never worked that way. one day i realized i was carrying the sadness and still showing up for my life too

teacup555
teacup555 2 hrs ago

grief and growth can happen simultaneously my friend. I’m trying to tell myself that going through a very tough time missing him, glad to hear your perspective!

FrostJet725
FrostJet725 3 hrs ago

that is a wonderful perspective

OpenMind353
OpenMind353 4 hrs ago

I think that's amazing. being able to keep doing what you need to do and what makes you happy is hard when you're going through a breakup, but it gets better. whether you get back with her or not... It gets better

ChillSpirit774

it’s true. doesn’t make it not hard. you got this! keep doing what’s best for you and be proud of how far you’ve come

LavLemon1234
LavLemon1234 4 hrs ago

thank you so much!