Why did our last talk leave me feeling stuck?

We just had our last talk a few hours ago and I was honest about me being happy but also struggling in my healing process. She told me multiple times that she had a soft spot for me still and that she would have my back. She also says that she had wanted me to move back to my hometown where she is when I told I wasn’t she was bummed but I told her I’ll be there a lot for family. We ultimately hung up and an hour later she said that her bf said that we couldn’t communicate anymore so I respected it. Now I feel like that my progress has restarted. Please help me make sense of this all

Last updated on:2026-06-18T10:21:11+05:30

Comments (5)

brokefeather

last conversation, were you starting to feel more at peace with the breakup, or had a part of you still been hoping those talks might lead somewhere?

ChillSpirit774

first, it’s not easy sharing those things with her and you should be proud of your vulnerability. second, you have made it through all those times before this conversation and you can do it again. I believe in you and I’m cheering you on

HappyMoods462
HappyMoods462 4 hrs ago

Thank you so much for the support and you’re right, I am strong enough to get back up

Cancer
Cancer 11 hrs ago

Sorry to hear that. It's one thing when both people are willing to talk things through and try to resolve things. It's another when they've already moved on or are seeing someone else, because their decisions can then be influenced, at least in part, by their new relationship.

HappyMoods462
HappyMoods462 10 hrs ago

Ghank you for the support I will hopefully be able to get on this app and share some good news