My ex broke up with me couple months ago. He moved out two days after and kept going with his life while I was there broken in millions of pieces and rearranging everything including taking care of our home and all the bills. After couple of weeks I got my own apartment and slowly started to feel like a human again. Then he messaged me and wanted to see and have s*x. I did it. After that he was in contact with me and shared moments from his life without me asking for it. I slowly started getting more hope about us. We have been seeing each other a bunch lately, doing stuff together and having fun. Yesterday he got anxious about everything again blaming me for it. It broke me so bad so today I decided to start having no contact with him at all. I'm confused, broken again and blaming myself for ruining everything by getting too excited. We have dogs, so no contact isn't working the way I would want to. But I will not text or call him if it's not about dogs. I still love him and I would do anything to get him back, even I'm sure he is not going to come back.
Last updated on:2026-06-24T04:34:11+05:30
Comments (4)
i'm glad you're choosing no contact where you can. when i finally stopped treating every text like a sign we'd get back together, my head got a little quieter. it hurt like hell at first, but the constant confusion hurt more.
i got pulled back in by an ex who kept acting like we still had something, and every good day together made me believe we were finding our way back. then he'd pull away again and i felt like i was grieving the breakup all over
when you're together now, does he actually talk about rebuilding the relationship, or is it mostly closeness and comfort without any real commitment
No talking about rebuilding. Just closeness and company.