Is moving on finally happening for me?

I feel like I’m getting closer to finally moving on. Since my last post I’ve taken time to focus on my goals and appreciating Jesus (I’m of Christian faith) for everything that has been given to me and taken away. There are times were I am hurt but I genuinely cannot hate that woman and I will not try to. The final act of love is letting go and if I can claim to love her that much then I can let her go without hoping she realizes what she lost. I think less of her now and being her up less. I do still feel disgusted when I think about sexual things and her birthday but I no longer have the expectation of her coming back to me. We grew apart which is a natural part of life. She is with another guy that she is happy with and I’m proud and happy for her or at least that’s how I try to change my mindset to view. I am healthy and doing better each day which is all I can be happy about. Every day is a day to do better so whoever is struggling just understand that you will get better. I know that it’s hard and that you feel like the world is ending and that you’re going to die but it gets better. I’m happy and I’m accepting myself and my mistakes/flaws. Please cry if you have to, spend time with that one friend or family member, and most of go to Christ. I am working on changing myself because I know my biggest flaw in a relationship is my pride. Can anyone give me advice on how to be more humble?

Last updated on:2026-07-11T20:13:11+05:30