need some motivation after replying to him
and having another pointless conversation
Last updated on:2026-07-13T18:17:32+05:30
Why going no contact feels so hard right now
need some motivation after replying to him
and having another pointless conversation
Last updated on:2026-07-13T18:17:32+05:30
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what did you feel after that conversation ended? did you feel calmer, or did it leave you wishing you'd never replied?
the second to be honest
for me, no contact stopped being about getting them back. it became the only way i could finally hear my own thoughts instead of waiting for another text that changed nothing.
i kept breaking no contact hoping THIS time we'd finally say the right thing, and it was always the same conversation with the same ending. that's what keeps me going now
no contact brings me peace. I won because he reached out first, but im wishing he never did because each time he does reach out, it confuses my heart and I start hoping he'll want to try again. No contact brings me healing, brings me back to myself, to prioritise myself. No contact keeps me distant while I make space for someone who deserves me
well i had tried the NC loop...but early in the morning i called him ..only to be blocked...
The fact that it always ends the same way
I know I’ll feel worse after and have a ton of regret and beat myself up about it. I’ll feel weak, pathetic and like i abandoned myself again. I’ve gone 8 days and I don’t want to start this horrific cycle over. sending love ❤️
writing
The fact i generally feel worse after, because it never brings me what im searching for.
i feel i am at this stage. i have blocked him on everything now. i try to keep busy and try not to let my mind wander. its really hard but i am determined to do it