after 3 years he broke up with me, I have no one to seek comfort in he made me lose all my friendships only for him to leave aswell. i don't know what to do with myself but i know time heals and there's nothing i can do about it
Last updated on:2026-07-13T04:39:11+05:30
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was starting with ONE person i trusted, even after months apart. i was convinced she'd hate hearing from me, but i was wrong.
when you say he made you lose your friendships, do you feel like those people are completely gone, or is there someone you've been thinking about reaching out to?
completely gone unfortunately
Time heals, yes. And it is goin to hurt. But you gotta believe in yourself. Every time you have a thought about what you can’t do, go and do something you are 100% in control of. Trust me, I have been stuck on the “I can’t do anything about it” train too.
I know its hard but try getting some new hobbies. this may lead you to make new friends and heal your energy. there's so many people in the world, so get out and explore. it will help you feel a lot better.
this is where you need to learn how to comfort yourself. As they say, you cant heal in the same place that hurt you. I know you are feeling a lot of pain right now, but be kind and gentle with yourself. The first couple of weeks are the hardest
i went through something so similar. i let my whole world get smaller for one person, then when he left i felt like i had nowhere to land.
you are your biggest Friend ship <3
ur so right