I had a relation of 4.7 years. He makes me feel like he don’t care… it can be true?
Last updated on:2026-07-15T09:53:54+05:30
Why does he make me feel like he doesn’t care after 4.7 years?
I had a relation of 4.7 years. He makes me feel like he don’t care… it can be true?
Last updated on:2026-07-15T09:53:54+05:30
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I’m not completely sure, but it seems that it’s true for some. I didn’t want to believe that avoidant discard was an actual thing because it seemed insane to me that 5 years of memories and love could disappear overnight and that he wouldn’t ever miss me again or even reply. Apparently they don’t come back most of the time. That’s what shattered me. I thought he was just processing and he’d come around eventually…
after years together i kept making excuses for the way he acted because i didn't want to believe it had changed. that feeling of wondering where you stand is exhausting
when did you first start feeling like he didn't care? was it one thing that changed, or did it slowly happen over time?
I been talking to this guy for almost five years. We started talking about a year after I lost my husband to Covid. He will not tell me a lot if it is a serious question. We can talk all day about small stuff but if I ask him a question about our relationship he goes silent and sometimes lashes out at me. He has his house I have mine. He comes to visit me I don’t go to his house he never invites me but he won’t tell me why. I have been a couple of times in five years. We talk everyday well we did we are no contact now. I don’t know if we are broke up if we ever really were together at all or if he is just taking time I have no clue. usually I chase and beg bad. but I made I promise to myself I’m not gonna do that this time. That is why I am here to get some help and support so I can break this cycle. I’m tired of it we are trauma bonded for sure.
I have the same issue back on day 1.
i dont personally know him but i think he is trying to lookk cool
He is hiding itt ALL guysss do the sameee like i dont think that there is a guy who says that he really cares after a break up idkk whyy they do thissss but i hatee itttt.It might hitt him then he will realize 100% what he lost
idk it was the opposite for me. I had the issues with the breakup and was worked up over it she is fine.