I feel tempted to contact my ex and aplogize for my feelings. But I dont think it would be wise for me. I dont want to put myself in a situation again of being hurt and confused. But the thought comes to my mind. Any advice?
Last updated on:2026-07-17T04:04:56+05:30
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If my ex reached out to me when we are both in mutual no contact I would honestly be thrilled
do you feel like you’re doing it because you truly need to say it, or because a part of you hopes it opens the door again?
sometimes the kindest thing i did for myself was let the feeling pass without acting on it.
i wanting to send that apology just to calm the ache, but deep down knowing i was hoping for something back that might hurt me again
we all have that temptation. some days are stronger than others. the only thing that seems to help is keeping busy, exercise and speaking to others
update: Now thinking inspite of this thought I am going to keep pushing forward. I must keep in rememberance the encouragement which was given to me in the past. I dont wanna find myself hurt again and then be in a cycle. I want to continually move forward.
this is a huge win! you are doing a great job! THIS is what choosing yourself and your beautiful future self looks like! sending love! 💕