So I have seen sculptures drawings of this depicting a relationship or marriage or whatnot and I thought it was a great picture of what a relationship should be and helps us better understand what a relationship should look like. reading everyone's post and one connection I see is how much we talk about everything we did for them all the love we poured all the time ,effort, money, support we poured into them but I never see what they poured into us. you deserve soo much better than a one sided relationship you did not loose them they lost you this right here is what a true love relationship looks like helping eachother carving eachother into the person we both aim to be and if they aren't carving you out as much as you are then take your tools and carve yourself out and away from them you deserve all that love all that time and all that effort that you are giving them don't settle! I love you all 👏🏽🫶🏽❤️🩹🫂
Last updated on:2026-07-20T17:41:18+05:30
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i stayed in a relationship where i kept giving more because i thought love meant proving myself, and i barely noticed how empty i felt. your words took me right back there.
i love the way you put this. i'm curious, was there one moment where you realized you were the only one doing the carving?
yes actually when he got on his feet after landing a good job after putting him through school I had to start Uber after my job to pay for some loans I took out after the dust settled I mentioned how tiered I was but I had to go because I wasnt going to make the payment for the loan with just my check and he just said" we'll be careful" thats when I realized I was doing too much for someone who would just sit back and watch me work myself to death it is what it is I know now to be more careful about what I do for people
thankyou. I really needed this on this morning. I almost reached out and broke NC.
reading this makes me soo soo happy I am soo proud of you for fighting the urge to not break NC 💗 it fills my heart with happiness to know my words helped you🫂🥹 always forward never back❤️🩹🫶🏽 you got this!!