I just got the sudden urge to make another account on fb and check his social media idk why or what triggered it but I stopped before I did it idk what I am looking for I guess im just wondering if he has posted her on social media yet.. I know hes with her so idk why me checking social media would make a difference maybe part of me still hopes this is temporary? and I hate that because I know I deserve better
Last updated on:2026-07-22T21:10:23+05:30
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I wouldn’t do that as it will only prolong the process of healing but it’s great that you decided not too, I’m currently in the same situation at the moment but I stop myself I don’t want to feel prolonged pain any longer so me not knowing helps a little. everything will be ok times a great healer.
what do you think you'd be hoping to see if you opened his profile, or what are you afraid you'd find
i know that urge way too well. i made fake accounts after my breakup just to check, and every time i looked i walked away feeling worse.
yea I know it wont end well if I do. but the urge to want to is unbearable
Girl, kill that doubt. When you stop monitoring him, the universe will work in your favor. Every time you log into his account, you're giving him free energy. Do you think he deserves that after everything he's done to you? I don't think so.
You deserve to flourish. You haven't blossomed in anyone's hardship.
yea your right thank you for your words they really helped he doesn't deserve space in my head
luckily my ex has no social media, it would make all of this so much harder. well done on stopping yourself. I think we like to do things to hurt ourselves more because some how it keeps us connected.
thanks I had to really control myself and think if it was worth loosing the progress I have made I cant wait for this feeling to be over its making me mad