hey guys, this is the 8th day
I think my nervous system is mostly calm and now I can reflect on things more easily... like little by little I am realising things
now I actually think I will never go back to him ever again even if he comes back
sometimes I also think that someone else will treat me in a way in which I want..perhaps it's okay to think like that
but sometimes I also think that whatever happend between him and I were the consequences of our own actions and we were both at fault and we didn't take accountability and didn't managed the situation well..
it feels like I'm in two boats at one time honestly but besides then that I'm doing okay..
my periods are gonna start so maybe my hormones are also playing tricks on me lol
but I think I'll be fine..it does feel bad to talk about stuff and maybe one day it won't feel bad..I'll be strong in this that much I know
you guys also be strong..let's help and support each other..
Last updated on:2026-07-23T23:19:25+05:30
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it feels like you're seeing both sides now, and i think that's healthy. i had to admit where i got things wrong too, but i also stopped carrying ALL the blame. both of those things can be true at once
thank you I needed to hear this 💖
Wishing you support
That's great
around the first week after my breakup too, i finally had a day where my body wasn't in panic anymore. my heart still missed him, but i could actually hear my own thoughts again.
i'm glad you're feeling a little steadier.
thank you
wish you the same
Its amazing how clearly we start to see things as our emotions and nervous system settle. nobody handles everything perfectly in a relationship and that should be ok. look after yourself
yeah I still get like nervous when some message pops up from my college..but I'll try to focus on myself only..