I got to thinking to myself why is it that I’m starting to hold myself accountable and learn about myself more? I’m in a position where I can’t tell if I’m winning or losing so I won’t even assume but I do know that I’m at a place where I’m genuinely questioning all my decisions and thinking from an outside perspective. I wonder that does my ex also question it for herself. Though honestly I doubt it because of the people around her and the choices she makes. I won’t judge her because I understand that we have become two different people in the amount of time we’ve been apart. Not only do I hold myself accountable when it comes to future romantic relationships but to myself and other relationships in my life. I’ve honestly come closer to the realization that I’m not perfect and I don’t have to be.
Last updated on:2026-07-29T01:39:11+05:30
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i had this weird phase where i questioned EVERYTHING about myself. it hurt, but i started seeing parts of me i never looked at before.
I'm going thru the same situation if she's losing interest or if she is falling out of love it has been a month or so since our break up and yes it feels hard but just give her her space I don't know if it will work but just try your hardest to let her go for now and when she reaches out be the man she always wanted
i think the fact that you’re asking these questions says a lot. i had to learn that growth doesn’t come from proving i was right, it came from being honest with myself and giving myself some grace.
when did you first notice yourself looking at your choices differently? was it something that happened after the breakup?
Because you are growing and you have awareness. Awareness is the most attractive characteristic anyone can have.