Was i the reason we broke up?

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So Then we broke up it was mid an argument I started and it lasted a lot of days and in general the all. situation was weird.And also one of the Mainly reasons he broke up with me were the arguments.And i kinda feel maybe if i was overreactingg or maybe i really was starting all the arguments And its clearly my fault??He also started arguments but i think it was more me. He also have told me that if we weren't arguing that moment now we would be together.This suckss guys.

Last updated on:2026-08-02T00:22:35+05:30

Comments (11)

BigBird
BigBird 2 mths ago

i know that "if we weren't arguing we'd still be together" line can stick in your head.

GiggTu103
GiggTu103 2 mths ago

I KNOWW RIGHT,,Like i could just stopp the argument that day and everything would be good

saplash16
saplash16 2 mths ago

when you'd argue, did he actually try to work through things with you too, or did it mostly end up with you feeling like everything was your fault?

GiggTu103
GiggTu103 2 mths ago

yes he diddd and we always get it with eachother after an argument i don't know why he just gave up on us.

caaru002
caaru002 2 mths ago

i spent months replaying every fight in my head, convinced i ruined everything. then i realized two people were in that relationship, not just me.

FrostJet725
FrostJet725 2 mths ago

reflection is healthy after a breakup if you use the information to grow and learn. Breakups are hard and everybody handles them differently, and nobody is perfect. Don't be hard on yourself, you are young and still learning. 🫶

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 2 mths ago

Arguments will never be the reason you break up, its how you repair after the argument that will be the make or break of a relationship

Marialuvfood
Marialuvfood 2 mths ago

i think if you argue alot no matter who starts it you upset eachother to much. i would say that its a good thing it ended, because its not a healthy relationship if u keep arguing and tbh no one wants to argue all the time at least thats my opinion i dont know alot abt relationships but i try. hope you get over him soon girl♥️

GiggTu103
GiggTu103 2 mths ago

yeahh i see youu,but it was definitely a healthy relationship we bothhh agree to thattt.the arguments werent THAT serious they were silly things and not like every day but they also were existing.. Thank you sooo muchhh.

Marialuvfood
Marialuvfood 2 mths ago

@GiggTu103 ohh i am so sorry I’m really not good at given advice lol😔😘

GiggTu103
GiggTu103 2 mths ago

@Marialuvfood no nooo.thankk yyy forr commentinggg