hi. so i’ll just jump right in because i just need to get this off of my chest. okay.
we never dated. we talked. a lot. i had liked him before we started talking, but didn’t do anything about it because ive never really dated anyone. he was one of the only real friends that i had at the time and everything about him screamed “kindest man out there”. but it was a little ways off from the truth.
so anyways, we started talked at the beginning of july i believe and it was everything i had ever wanted. i think he liked me for a few months before, and was finally showing me that. he called me “mi munda” which means my world. and this was specially in spanish because we had a friend that he had learned spanish for. i know. amazing.
but it started to fall off and he was posting some dark stuff so i tried checking in on him but he wouldn’t let me in, so i let it go and simply told him that if he did ever decide he wanted to talk i was there. okay. messaged him again a few days later asking him if he was okay and letting him know that if he didn’t want to talk to me for a second that would be okay.
boom.
he told me he couldn’t talk anymore. and i broke.
i don’t want to get into it, so ill let you know that i kept him added on snap and followed him on insta, kept his number, etc.. then he started posting this other girl and the pictures had said from two weeks ago, which meant that he was talking to both of us at the same time. and i feel so stupid because a girl he had previously dated told my friend that he had cheated on her. and so i guess i had it coming.
now, ive unadded him and unfollowed him, but im keeping his number for now. i dont have the heart to get rid of everything. i think it’d take a part of me with it.
Last updated on:2026-08-01T22:29:46+05:30
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i’m wondering about the part where he said he couldn’t talk anymore. did he ever explain why he pulled away, or did he just leave you sitting with all those unanswered questions?
i wish i could tell you that he gave me answers that i tried so desperately to fight for. but unfortunately, he chose to say that he wasn’t able to talk to me because of something he was going through. i tried to get him to understand that i needed more, but he didn’t have anything to say to me.
’ve been there with someone who made me feel like i was their whole world, then disappeared when things got hard. losing a person you never officially dated can still break your heart just as much.
i agree. and honestly i think sometimes it is worse, knowing that there could have been something there but one person was unwilling to go through with what they lead you on to believe.
oh wow that broke me, so i can't imagine for you, you were so kind to him only to be betrayed... i'm proud of you for deleting most of it, for the rest takes your time, the most important is to not contact him again🩷
thank you. i really do appreciate that you had the heart to comment and patience to read through. i’m trying not to contact him, but it takes a lot of you. ❤️
@illchange the beginning is always the hardest, you got this i believe in you
I went through a very similar situation and it broke me for a very long time. He ended up choosing her after months of telling me he loved me. I asked him why he would say that if he didnt mean it and he said he did it for the meme. It took me a long time to get over it. My best advice is to completely remove him from your life. You deserve people who treat you better than this ❤️
i’m so sorry for the way your situation ended. and, for the record, anything and everything about you isn’t a meme and you deserve better love. and thank you. you took the time to read and share and i’m so glad. i’m trying my best to let go of him now. ❤️