How i found hope after heartbreak

I was doing really bad after a breakup that happened on 4th of May and it looked like she wouldn't care ever or anything. I did everything to make her feel loved, safe and happy in general but it wasn't enough so i blamed myself.
For a long time i thought that she would never think of me or that i would be happy again.
Today i'm in 2 month relationship with the girl of my dreams and i would never change her for anything or anyone else.
She makes me feel like never before and even though it's short period of time i feel like we are literally soulmates.
Funny thing is i always worried would my ex ever reach out to me or think about me and as i entered this relationship i stopped worrying about it and that's when it happened. She wrote me a message in August asking about how i am and is there anything new in my life.
I never opened the message, nor did i message her back because finally i stopped thinking about her and focused on myself.
So just work on yourself, be the better person everyday and it will pay off.
Whatever happens happens and if it's meant to be it will be.

Last updated on:2026-10-19T08:27:12+05:30

Comments (7)

phoenix26 3 wks ago

blaming myself for everything after my breakup too, like if i'd just loved her better, maybe she'd have stayed. seeing someone choose you freely after that kind of pain hits different

hujambo11 3 wks ago

the part that got me was you not even needing to open your ex's message anymore. when i finally stopped checking my phone and started living for myself again, things got lighter too.

haPPyme 3 wks ago

i love that you found someone who makes you feel this way 🥹 did you notice yourself healing before you met your new girlfriend, or did being loved differently help you see your own worth again?