Today is my 42 day of no contact, and i m feeling really sad. I was in a one year long distance relationship with a guy who acted committed to me while using a dating app behind my back. When i found out he broke up with me and said he didn't love me anymore even though he was the same person who used to tell me he loved me. How do i cope with this pain? Why is it still so hard to move on even after 42 days of no contact?
Last updated on:2026-10-24T22:00:12+05:30
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when you feel the urge to talk to him, do you miss him as a person, or do you find yourself wishing he’d explain how he could say he loved you while secretly using a dating app?
i'm on day 1 of being no contact but we broke up a year ago but we're on contact but this time this is officially no contact and i wish you nothing but the best stranger! :)
I'm so incredibly sorry for the pain you're going through. I've been through something very similar, so I hope you can at least find comfort in knowing you're not alone in this.
My best advice to not reach out is to try and picture this through the perspective of a friend. How would you comfort a friend going through this? What advice would you give them? What would your first plan of action be if needed? Now try and apply that same kindness to yourself.
Hay una diferencia enorme entre que alguien te extrañe y que alguien realmente quiera hacer las cosas bien. Extrañarte muchas veces es solo su ego o su soledad hablando. No cambies tu paz por migajas de atención. Mantente fuerte en tu día 42