111 days of peace: how i handle his mind games

111 days of peace…and then an email. I didn’t even have to open it to know it was a trap. Every few months he tries to trigger me just to see if I’ll bite.
​The preview said something about "what’s best for our daughter." Seriously? The daughter he hasn't seen since November? The one he told me he had no connection to? It’s honestly disgusting. Taking care of a baby alone while navigating postpartum is a lot, and I refuse to let his mind games ruin my day. I'm never reading another word from him. He really does not know me. Once I'm done with someone, I'm completely radio silent. I remember him saying that I was using our baby girl as a pawn but who's really doing that?

Last updated on:2026-04-02T03:54:34+05:30

Comments (6)

PainfulEcho
PainfulEcho 2 wks ago

how are you holding up with everything else while managing the baby? it sounds like you’re carrying so much alone.

NovaDash241
NovaDash241 2 wks ago

yes, it's been very overwhelming tbh but I've been doing my best to manage the stress.

FadingLight
FadingLight 3 wks ago

keep that radio silence. engaging with someone who thrives on control just drags you back into the storm. protecting yourself is not selfish.

NovaDash241
NovaDash241 2 wks ago

exactly!!!

DicchiPoo
DicchiPoo 3 wks ago

my ex would try to guilt me through messages too, just to see if i’d react. staying silent was the only thing that kept me sane.

NovaDash241
NovaDash241 2 wks ago

I'm definitely staying quiet.