Why going 100 days no contact was the best decision i made

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Been in no contact for 100 days. Feels like forever but I am happy that I didn't do anything for a 100 days. I was always that anxious type of man who always wanted to fix everything and find a closure but I worked on myself from day 1 and it turned out perfectly. I hope same for everyone else who go through hard times.

Last updated on:2026-04-11T14:17:00+05:30

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DashFire358
DashFire358 16 hrs ago

i hope to reflect this way, can’t wait to feel the weight off my shoulders

Xamix
Xamix 6 hrs ago

You will!!

SnapBuzz123
SnapBuzz123 17 hrs ago

tremendous respect. I'm aiming to hit my 100 days somewhere in... July.

Xamix
Xamix 6 hrs ago

Keep working on yourself you will be goood!

WooMoo547
WooMoo547 18 hrs ago

I'm happy for you! What did you do to work on yourself? I'm also the person who always tried to fix everything, and I got discarded instead of a ending, so it's a struggle right now. I wanna work on myself, but I don't even know where to start.

SnapBuzz123
SnapBuzz123 17 hrs ago

There are many healing paths you can can do right from home. It all starts with exploring every part and layer of your mind and body and emotions. Don't hold back but become super curious to see who you are and where you might need some more love. Try out tons of stuff to see what comes up for you and what clicks for you. Meditation, running, Cold dives, Wim Hof breathing, Psychedelics, EMDR on youtube, Inner Child Healing vids. IFS, Schema Therapy, Somatic Release methods. Also you can ask AI to play therapist and respond to your ramblings with direct questions you then have to answer.

Xamix
Xamix 6 hrs ago

Basically what SnapBuzz said, I was trying to understand everything about me why it was the way it was and I found a lot about myself. I worked on stuff I didn't liked about myself. I changed mindset about relationships and breakup aftermaths. I started be very peaceful but it was a lot of self work.

WooMoo547
WooMoo547 4 hrs ago

@SnapBuzz123 thank you!

Zita
Zita 18 hrs ago

Am 114 Days today so the feeling is mutual.
The clouds to lift overtime. God is Great :)

Xamix
Xamix 6 hrs ago

Im happy that you found peace :))