Why you should stop chasing someone who doesn't love you back

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I found co-star to be very helpful. today my message was" you are no longer allowed to love someone who doesn't love you back.... stop chasing someone who keeps walking away. your devotion won't change their mind-it will only drain you. the person meant for you won't make you beg for scraps of attention."

Last updated on:2026-04-20T21:06:42+05:30

Comments (4)

matenchek
matenchek 3 wks ago

do you feel ready to actually stop chasing them, or does part of you still hope they’ll turn around if you just hold on a little longer?

Chrissy15
Chrissy15 3 wks ago

I'm not ready but at the same time I should let go fully because I don't deserve someone who leaves when times get hard and stressful. Also this is our second breakup, the only hope i have is he did say he will reach out when he's ready/ able to.... plus I have my belongings there and we have to discuss weither to sell or pay me my share of the bike. I should have just mentioned it when I broke no contact the first time but I wasn't ready.

coldbye
coldbye 3 wks ago

i used to keep loving someone who kept pulling away too, thinking if i just tried harder they’d finally stay… it drained me in ways i didn’t even notice at the time

DreamyWay697
DreamyWay697 4 wks ago

you deserve a love that stays